As a write this, I hope you come to understand that the only way to set one free is through forgiveness. It took me many sleepless nights as I sifted through everything that happened and basically accepted, dealt and started to heal so that I could move forward. For me, your apology was insulting and hurtful. And most importantly, I felt that you desecrated my safe haven - my escape from all the bullshit and everything that sometimes makes my life unbearable. You used it against me. And lied. Point blank in black font. Or whatever you may want to call it if not lied. Bend the truth even...? For me, I am dealing and as aforementioned, starting to heal. But in order to make sure I am on the right path I needed you to know that I forgive you. I forgive you for what you did and your part in all of this. I too am aware that I played my part, but what you did to me just proved everything I had for so long tried to fight. Ndakakurambira...and then it blew up in my face. I can't ev...
